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Saturday, September 23rd, 2006
8:43 pm
D.I.Y. Dildo
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Saturday, December 24th, 2005
11:45 pm
Toys for male prostate stimulation and anal play (preferably hands free)
I'm currently looking for suggestions for a really good prostate stimulator / anal play toy that rubs and presses on the prostate and stimulates the anus/rectal area to be used either alone or with a partner. I've heard some good things about the aneros prostate massager, however, though i have not tried it, i fear that it may be a little too gentle for my tastes. I originally thought about something like a standard dildo but if i can, i'd like to be able to get something that is hands free and can be used during intercourse with a partner.

does anybody have any suggestions?
Wednesday, November 23rd, 2005
1:43 am
Wednesday, November 2nd, 2005
12:21 pm
Virgin Question
Hello, I am a virgin and have just recently met a guy that I plan to have sex with. I'm not completely inexperienced, I masturbate and have experimented with fingering, but my boyfriend has a 10-inch penis when fully aroused (yes, I've seen it and no, he isn't exagerating). As you can imagine, this worries me a bit because regardless of how much lubrication we use, I can't really imagine it fitting easily. I realize that my boyfriend's penis being too big is a rather hilarious problem, but it's less hilarious with an unbroken hymen and a real chance of pain. Any advice that someone could give me would be much appreciated.
Friday, July 15th, 2005
2:01 pm
I'm new to this community, and new to sex as well. I am a female, and love to masterbate. I have not, however, actually had sex. There is a fantasy gifts type store near me, and I'm thinking of going out and buying a vibrator. First of all, what type of vibrator is good for first timers? Also, I'm kind of embarassed to go into the store. Do you think it's normal for people to go in and buy vibrators? I'm just a little uncomfortable, but really want one. Please help me!
Monday, June 20th, 2005
2:25 am
This doesnt really have to do with sex, but...it's close enough.
I was thinking about this, and wondered if anyone knew anything about it...
When my boyfriend masturbates (which is quite often) he usually holds him cum in when he orgasms... is that unhealthy? Does anyone else do that? It just seems like it could mess something up...


Current Mood: curious
Friday, June 3rd, 2005
1:11 pm
My friend has a problem.

Ever since she can remember (she is 19), she hasn't really gotten anything out of what most people might consider sexual behavior. Kissing, for her, is more of a feeling of "alright, how long before we can do something else" and her breasts and vulva, when touched, feel devoid of sensation. After a brief period of going out, we (still good friends) had a long conversation about it. She's certain that she can't recall anything that might have caused her psycho-sexual damage (as that tends to be the primary reason for a number of problems), and because she isn't taking any bizarro medications (she's on birth control pills and acne medication), I'm at a loss as for what to advise her.

I'm of the gayish persuasion myself, and when I kissed her, I didn't get anything out of it (not like I got when kissing another guy) and I asked her if there was a possibility that SHE was in fact gay, but she said that she didn't find women to be attractive at all, so I let the possibility drop. She tends to not be very feminine (ie. girls are nice and all, but boys share more of her interests) which is awesome, but another contributing factor to the afformentioned suspicions. She said that she was definately attracted to those boys whom she has kissed in the past, but in every scenario she got nothing out of it. Normally, I would have just advised her to enjoy the relationships of being closer friends, but she gets frustrated not being able to enjoy sexual stuff that everyone else seems to enjoy/take for granted and her boyfriends oft got put off by it as well.

Does anyone have or has anyone heard of this before? Help por favor!

Current Mood: confused
Monday, May 23rd, 2005
7:15 pm
alright.. well... i posted before saying that my boyfriend said that he didnt htink he would let give him a hand job or anything becasue he was shy about his penis because he thought he was small..

well.. on Saturday, i went over there, adn we were both in a crazy horny mood... and he ended up being in jsut his boxers with it out. So i give him a hand job. But he didnt cum... Earlier before that, we were "grinding"... or dry sex? whatever you want to call it.. and he came a little every once in a while then. But when i hgaveh im a handjob, he didnt. What is up with that?? :\ I was really upset about it. It was the first time anyone has ever even SEEN his penis.. so yea. I dont know.. but i feel so stupid that i couldnt make him cum. :\ While i was doing it.. he told me i could stop a few times.. because it was taking forever. and i told him it was okay and i would keep going. And then he said that it wasnt my fault.. and that it was HIS because he had to consentrate. WTF? What is he tlaking about?? i asked peopel ast my school, and they said that he was lying? What's going on? lol

..and does anyone have any tips? I dont relly want to use lube.. so dont mention that. But two of my freinds toldm e how tight to grip it.. and they said to go the full length of it. So yea.. any other tips? ..and im aware of the fact that i could give him head.. but i dont really want t oyet... mostly because im scared becasue i have never done it before.. and i dont think i would be good. it seems liek it will be so hard nto to use my teeth. :\ But i was told to practice with a banana when im ready to go that far. hehe.

so yea, help please? <3
Thursday, May 19th, 2005
11:10 pm
Hi, I just joined. I was wondering if anyone could help me with this issue I have with, well... myself.

... Okay, I’ll just start off telling you my age. I'm 15. I have EVERY intention to wait until I am married to have sex... but lately, I’ve really been wanting to do other things with my boyfriend. The only thing is, for as LONG as I can remember, I have absolutely HATED my vulva. I am completely self conscious of myself. Here is the thing... I have an enlarged Labia Minor. (The lips on the inside) They're big enough that they stick out of my bigger lips. Also, it's sort of a purplish color... and I just find it VERY VERY embarrassing. I have wanted to do things with guys before, but that held me back. I always thought there was something majorly wrong with me. Because I’ve seen other girls' "parts", and I’ve never seen one ANYTHING like mine. But then one day, I decided to do research on it, after having a health class where I learned what all the parts of the vulva were actually called. And I found out that there's really nothing WRONG with me, but if I wanted to, I have the choice of getting cosmetic surgery to enlarge the outer lips and make the inner ones look not so big. I don’t want that. I just... I don’t know what to do. I am SO embarrassed. I talked to my best friend (he's a guy), whom is also my ex, and my boyfriend about it... But I still feel really bad about it. My ex says I have nothing at all to be embarrassed about. And my boyfriend just says I’ll get over it eventually. But I don’t know. It's not like my boyfriend has even had any experience. He is 16 and the farthest he's gone is making out. (Well, he has had his hands up my shirt now, and we've done some "dry sex"... and I’ve done some rubbing our of his close, and same with him) So how would he really know anything about it? But I don’t know. I just think it's really really gross. -Sighs- Am I over reacting?? I feel so stupid for letting this hold me back. The most I've done with a guy because of this is giving a hand job. I have never let any guy touch me down there because of this.

Another thing... after talking to my boyfriend about this, he told me that he is really self conscious about his size, and he doesn’t even think that he would let me give him a hand job or anything. That put me in a horrible mood... because for some reason, i just REALLY want to do things with him. But I do think that I’ll be able to talk him into getting over it, because I’ve felt him though his clothes and I really didn’t notice him being extra small or anything. Plus, I wouldn’t want it to be big anyways!! .. And he knows this. So yea. (By the way, me and my boyfriend have only been together for about a month... So I’m sure I would be waiting a while to do anything with him, even if these issues were there)

So, anyone want to help me out with these issues? :\ It would RELALY be appreciated!! Thanx in advance! <3
Tuesday, May 10th, 2005
9:13 am
Ok, i just started dating this girl and she hasnt ever done anything sexually except kissing... She likes to take things very slow, and we havent even kissed yet and it will probably be months before we get to anything more than kissing...

i dont want to seem shallow or anything, but how can i help myself be able to wait that long without trying to pressure her... I dont want to pressure her, but i feel that i might say things or do things that cud pressure her into doing things before she is ready...

i am willing to wait, and i guess what i am asking is... are there any tips for me to help me be able to wait that long without dying of hornality...

(i hav been in 2 previous serious relationships and sex was a big part of both, and i am an 18 yr old guy)

i hope u lot get what i mean.... thanks in advance...
Saturday, May 7th, 2005
2:18 am
My girlfriend wants to have a three-some. One with a girl, one with a guy.

Does anyone here have any advice? I have a...checkered past with guys and I'm sort of uneasy about it. Especially since I'm so close to her. I already told her they both need to be random and someone we'll never see and that emotional attachments are out of the question.

Should I try the guy three-some...see how it works? Any advice on three-somes?
Friday, February 18th, 2005
12:30 am

I dont know if this is the place to ask but anywho.....

i have had sex with my girl quite a few times, and with my ex loads of times before her, but in the last 3 times i hav had sex wid my girl the comdom has broke twice.

it was a different type of condom each time, and as i hav had lots of sex, its probably not that i am putting it on wrong.... what could it be that is causing this?

also my girl cant go on the pill cos of a medical condition she has, i was wondering if there is a type of BC i could go on? to use aswell as the condom just incase the above happens again....
Thursday, February 3rd, 2005
8:05 pm
Help please
I lost my virginity last night and unfortunately it didn't go like I had imagined. Neither of us came, we just got tired and gave up. We're planning to give it another go-round sooner or later and I have some questions.

1. My guy was saying he couldn't come because the condom ruined the sensation..(he was being honest, and not that he was trying to get out of wearing it) What changes can be made to remedy this?

2. There didn't seem to be much friction either. Could it be because I was too wet or loose for him? (I use a toy for penetration whenever I masterbate. Always to orgasm or several.) Any tips here? Less foreplay? Less self-penetration?

3. I couldn't really feel much or get enough sensation to get even get close to cumming. We tried a couple different positions and girl on top and reverse cowgirl gave me the best sensation. One problem we were having though with just normal girl on top (facing the guy) was he kept slipping out. Also, he mentioned that I was hurting him by leaning forwards to rub my clit against him. I don't want my pleasure to be his pain.

Thanks in advance everyone :)


Current Mood: cranky
Wednesday, February 2nd, 2005
2:24 pm
First post!
hey, how is everyone today?

I have a problem I need help with. I may just be overreacting but well.. okay here's my situation:

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Friday, January 28th, 2005
4:01 pm
Does anyone know the web site in which has virtual people doing sex positions? Its sponsered by Trojan condoms or something? Thanks. :D
Wednesday, January 26th, 2005
9:20 am
Has anyone used Nair or other depilatory agent on their mans balls? I live the feel of a smooth scrotum, and am looking for options other than shaving my man all of the time.
Monday, December 27th, 2004
12:10 pm
I really seriously need some answers on this.. =(
I am not sure how to word this right? SO here goes... i can get off really good one time..and it is always the first time. but after that, my clit gets really sore, and I just.. i guess you would say that I pretty much lose interest. I am really not horny anymore. I am a virgin, but my boyfriend and i have talked about it, and we are probably going to have sex pretty soon. I am so scared that I am going to just not be into it anymore. Is it just because I haven't had sex and I haven't had all of that stimulation to keep me going, or is there something really wrong with me? I am scared to death of not pleasing him, and I think that if this is the case, then I won't..=( help me! PLEASE!!!
Saturday, December 18th, 2004
11:42 pm
Hi all. My name is Eliza, and this isn't the normal journal I post at.. it's my naughty journal!

Anyway. I need some advice. I can only get off when I masturbate either when i'm in the shower or when I use a back massager, etc. If any of you could give me ideas/tips/new ways to stimulate myself using other household objects or my hands, please comment.. I am desperate! I can never seem to get off with any other method than the shower or massager. Thanks guys.
Friday, November 19th, 2004
1:22 am
anal concerns
So me and my girlfriend want to try anal for the first time, and I was just looking for some good advice.

Should we play around first with toys and what not or just go straight to the sex?

Is there a particular position that makes the first time easier on her?

Are there any tricks or anything that I can do in order to make it more confortable and/or pleasureable for her?

Is there a particular lube that is recomended (we already use KY)?

And finally, for those of you that have had experiences with women coming from anal, how many times does it take until it becomes pleasureable to the point of coming? We are very interested in making this a regular part of our playtime so any advice would be great!

Thanks! (x-posted)
Wednesday, October 27th, 2004
6:23 pm
Female ejaculation
Wow...apparantly I can do that... o.O

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(cross posted to sex_tips, sextips, and sextipsii)

Current Mood: surprised
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