Should we play around first with toys and what not or just go straight to the sex?
Is there a particular position that makes the first time easier on her?
Are there any tricks or anything that I can do in order to make it more confortable and/or pleasureable for her?
Is there a particular lube that is recomended (we already use KY)?
And finally, for those of you that have had experiences with women coming from anal, how many times does it take until it becomes pleasureable to the point of coming? We are very interested in making this a regular part of our playtime so any advice would be great!